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A Letter from Your Father
Submitted by Flora Monroe

Dear Precious Daughter,
I call you Daughter because I am your Heavenly Father. It was I who created you; It was I who gave you your first breath.

Yes, I used your natural parents to bring you into this world; your mother carried you in her womb until it was time for you to be born.

Your parents may have failed you; they may have had illness such as drug or alcohol dependence causing you to live your life in foster homes or institutions. You may have even been give up for adoption. Maybe they were "Good parents" giving you everything they could, but they did not have time for you, leaving you with an ache inside. Daughter, if this has happened to you, this was not my will for your life. For I know the plans I have for you, they are plans to give you hope and a future, plans to help you, not to hurt you.

When I created man, I gave him a free will. I allowed man to make choices for himself. Since his beginning, he has made wrong choices. This breaks my heart. This is why there is sin in the world. This is why bad things have happened to you. These bad things that have happened to you, whether by your own wrong choices, or the choices of others, have never been by will for you, I Love You.

I want you now to talk to me, to say to me, "Father, I accept your love."

Daughter, I know that you have made wrong choices, you have sinned. All men have sinned. That is why I sent my Son Jesus into the world. He gave his life for you. You do not have to feel guilty or bad because of bad things that may have been done to you. My Son Jesus died so that all these sins can be forgiven and forgotten if you will say to me now...

"Father, I accept your love for me, I believe in your Son Jesus. I believe he died for me. I believe he rose again and now lives in Heaven. I ask you to forgive me. I trust you with my life and ask that you give me your Holy Spirit to live with me."

My daughter, just as I have provided Jesus to forgive you of your sins. I have provided the Holy Spirit for you.
My Holy Spirit will comfort you and guide you,
He will give you wisdom and strength to make good choices.
He will teach you truth about me.
When you read my Word, He will cause you to understand.


A Love Story
Submitted by Kathy Avery

We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a high chair. Suddenly Erik squealed and said "Hi there." He pounded his hands on the high-chair tray and wriggled and giggled with merriment. I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man with a tattered rag of a coat, dirty, greasy and worn. His pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map. We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled. His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. "Hi there, baby. I see ya, buster," the man said to Erik.

My husband and I exchanged looks, "What do we do?" Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby. Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room, "Do ya know patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek-a boo."

Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk. My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence, all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skid-row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments. We finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot.

The old man sat poised between me and the door. "Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik," I prayed. As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to side-step him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby's pick-me-up position. Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man's.

Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their love relationship. Erik, in an act of total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man's ragged shoulder. The man's eyes closed and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain and hard labor gently, so gently cradled my baby's bottom and stroked his back.

No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms for a moment, and then his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding voice, "You take care of this baby." Somehow I managed, "I will," from a throat that contained a stone. He pried Erik from his chest unwillingly, longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my baby and the man said, "God bless you, ma'am, you've given me my Christmas gift."

I said nothing more than a muttered thanks. With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, "My God, my God, forgive me." I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgement, a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes.

I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not. I felt it was God asking...."Are you willing to share your son for a moment?", when He shared His for an eternity. The ragged old man, unwittingly, had reminded me, "To enter the Kingdom of God, we must become as little children."


Double Digits
By Renie Dugwyler

The stove buzzer broke through the late night activities of chopping, browning, stewing, and stirring the fixing of sloppy joes and baked beans. Well, this is it I thought. Maggie's canine ears pricked up at the sound of my voice and mutterings. I flipped the cake pan over and tentatively tapped the lukewarm bottom of the bunt pan. "Dear God, please, please let this turn out."

I carefully pried the shell off. Only half of a semi-circle of brown appeared on our family tradition red birthday plate. I turned the pan back over to find the rest of the cake staring at me like an unhappy slug that was disturbed from our garden. I spent several minutes debating what to do with the mess. Rubbing Maggie's tummy fur with my foot while I fanned the brown creature with the worn pot holder didn't seem to help me think any better.

How could I make this look like a sculptured Martha Stewart approved cake of celebration? It is his first double digit birthday party. The festivities begin tomorrow morning. What to do, what to do...and what's up with Martha's first name being the same as Mary's sister in the New Testament. Hmmmm.

I looked down for help from Maggie but she had fallen back asleep. You know, that funny upside-down belly-up way dogs do with the skin of their jowls rolled back to the floor, showing all their teeth and all four paws pointing to the ceiling.

"Maggie, how can you sleep at a time like this, it is his first double digit birthday. Are you snoring?"

The ingredients for the second cake lay disheveled on the counter. Cake two, to be served in the original baking ware should be ready in another 27-30 minutes. While Maggie digested the Betty Crocker slug I started to clean up the menu utensils.

"If we hurry Maggie, we can still get 4 hours of sleep." I received a wag of approval.

Twenty-eight minutes later I kicked the oven door shut, my hands still sudsy from the dishes. "Perfect," I thought, "how can I ruin a rectangle?" Well, let1s not go there. By the time I dabbed the last bit of kitchen preparations of love from my brow, I had a much better understanding of why the original chef must have called her culinary delight "sloppy" joes.

I didn't sleep much. Too many thoughts dancing through my head. Will Jake have fun at the party? Will the 6 other tween-age boys have fun? What if it rains? Will the boys like fishing and swimming? Will the cake taste OK? Will they catch any fish? Will they think I am a fun mom? Will Jake feel special? Will the cake come out of the pan when I cut it? How will the boys do all night gathered in our basement for the slumber party? Will I ever, ever get to sleep? Do I have enough food? Half an hour before my alarm went off I finally turned it all over in prayer.

"Lord, you are worthy and lovely to me, thank you for the sweet, sweet gift of Jake in our family. Show your presence in Jake's big day tomorrow--correction, today. Remind me to be more of a Mary and not a Martha today. And God, please make the frosting firm up before I light the candles."


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