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I Want Your Children!
Submitted by Margo Bentzler

I want your children...

I have come to visit your children
and I'm pleased with what I see.
They abuse all kinds of drugs,
and are getting drunk with me.

They live as in Gomorrah or Sodom,
their minds perverse and blown.
I will claim their souls anytime now,
you shouldn't have left them alone.

I am glad you worked long hours,
I am glad you were busy a lot.
And It would have been harder to sway them,
if you too hadn't been using pot.

At your schools I have been at work,
making sex an acceptable game.
You slept while I fought to keep prayer out,
To add to your neglectful shame.

You don't seem to noticed the witchcraft;
I broadcast on your own TV,
"It's just an innocent program,"
Twitch your nose as they follow me.

Add a couple violent sitcoms,
It's funny to see heads blown in two.
Now your little Tommy has his own gun
and there's nothing you can do.

They're mine and you cannot reach them;
their hearts are cold, hard and black.
I've showed them how to party,
with pot, cocaine and crack.

You have been a tremendous help though;
I couldn't have done it alone.
If you hadn't forsaken your prayer life,
these seeds I could not have sown.

So stay away from the Bible's teachings;
don't listen to what God has to say.
Your children are no longer your problem,
a price they'll eternally pay.

Without Christ they are mine to devour.
Without God, nothing you can do.
Today I will take your children.
Tomorrow I will be coming for you.

Sincerely,
Satan


"PLAYING FOR KEEPS"
A Personal View by Dr. Ted Baehr
Founder and publisher of MOVIEGUIDE
______________________________________________________________________
 
The Columbine High School massacre made the public aware of what media researchers have known for years - not only can violent media influence susceptible youth to commit violence, but, also, according to army psychologist Lt. Col. David Grossman, violent video and computer games can train children to kill!

In the Senate hearings on what caused the Columbine massacre, Col. Grossman, who taught U.S. Army personnel to kill as part of their West Point training, clearly presented the evidence that video games can also train children to kill. After the Paducah and Jonesboro killings, he embarked on a mission to investigate the more than a dozen shootings by adolescents and pre-adolescents of their school-mates. He found that many of the killers had not had much practice with real guns, but that they shared a common exposure to violent video games and movies.

In an article in our magazine, MOVIEGUIDE(r), Col. Grossman said that the patterns of video play are similar to what the army uses to train troops, the majority of whom initially have a built-in resistance to killing. Thus, he notes, by exposing children to murder and mayhem at vulnerable stages in their development, the media and, in particular video games, desensitizes children by mixing violence and killing with entertainment. It classically conditions them to enjoy role model heroes who kill, maim and mutilate. Finally, video games perform the most important step of operant conditioning - teaching children to kill without thinking by having them practice killing over and over and over again. One young killer told Col. Grossman that he had not used a real gun before and that he didn't mean to kill, but when the man moved, the boy shot reflexively because he had been trained to kill by the video games.

Col. Grossman's cogent analysis has helped clarify and illustrate the prior research in this area. There were many studies but most of them were too obtuse for people to grasp the magnitude of the problem. In the late 1970s, when I was director of the TV Center at City University of New York, the research showed that TV, movies and other mass media were flawed educational tools because they did not offer the student the feedback and response necessary for significant cognitive development. In the early 1980s, video and computer games served to complete the educational loop by allowing the student to interact.

Numerous studies collected and reported in the 1971 Surgeon General's Report, in the 1978-1979 National Institute of Mental Health reports and in the 1992 American Psychological Association's Task Force Report showed that the mass media of entertainment, though imperfect educational tools, can and did influence susceptible individuals to commit violence. In fact, studies on the effect of violence in the entertainment media have been conducted so often and the evidence is so overwhelming, that most knowledgeable media experts and educators - and even the New York Times and the London Times - have stated that the evidence is irrefutable.

A 1995 UCLA Center for Communication Policy/U.S News & World Report poll of the top 6,300 executives in Hollywood showed that 87% felt that the violence in the media influences susceptible youth to commit violence. In a 1995 USA Today/Gallup Poll of the general public, 97% of the respondents agreed. A 1992 MTV poll showed that 92% of the children felt the same way. After the Columbine High School massacre, several entertainment industry leaders spoke out: "Anyone who thinks the media has nothing to do with this is an idiot." - CBS President Leslie Moonves. Associated Press, 5/19/99.

"When the finger is pointed at them [the entertainment industry leaders] about violence, they say their media has no influence; but they turn around and say just the opposite to advertisers. We should all admit our medium has an influence." - ABC Chairman Bob Iger. Los Angeles Times, 5/30/99.

If the evidence is irrefutable, if close to 90% of the entertainment industry admits that entertainment can influence susceptible youths to commit violence, if the American people believe that the mass media of entertainment can influence people to commit violent acts, then: Why does the entertainment industry continue to make games with salacious violence?
 
Why do parents continue to let their children play these games if they believe that these games train children to kill? And, why are the advertisements for these violent games aimed at children?

On June 1, 1999, President Clinton shocked many people by reading some of the advertising slogans used to sell popular video games: "More fun than shooting your neighbor's cat"; "Get in touch with your gun-toting, cold-blooded, murdering side"; and, "Kill your friends, guilt-free."
 
The reason this continues seems clear - most people are conflicted and in denial because the fact of the matter is that most people enjoy violent entertainment. However, as a consequence of this training in violence, newspapers now proclaim the greatest threat facing our culture's future: Children on killing sprees; Increased risky behavior by children; Children at war with their parents! These are our children - the 77 million children born between 1979 and 1989 - more children entering their teenage years than occurred during the Baby Boom.
 
These children were not raised on OZZIE AND HARRIET or LEAVE IT TO BEAVER, but on the Samurai-slashing games like "Bushido Blade," bloody titles like "Quake," and the infamous "Mortal Kombat."

The first signs of the character of this new generation may be the killings conducted last year by 15 adolescents and pre-adolescents. According to exhaustive research, the violent media of entertainment has set the moral agenda for the future of our country. To paraphrase Theodore Roosevelt: If you educate a man's mind and not his heart, you will have an educated barbarian.
 
This is not to stay that all of our 77 million children are educated barbarians. Studies show that most who watch the media merely become desensitized. A significant minority becomes frightened and paranoid. Regrettably, from 7 to 31 percent of teenagers say they would like to copy what the violent movie or game activity in real life.

However, there is an answer. Experts in the field of media understand that you can train your children to discern the difference between right and wrong and to be wise media consumers who will want to choose the good and reject the bad.

Research shows that if you watch with your children and talk to them about what they are watching, you will help them take a critical view toward it. Better yet, if you have them review the movie, television program or game, listing all the things that are wrong, you will help them develop discernment. Even better, if you have them write down their standards, what they feel is right and wrong, and help them understand why at vulnerable ages they should not be exposed to material that may hurt them psychologically, you will help them to become media-wise.

Rather than exploiting the problem, bemoaning the problem or calling for more studies to obfuscate the problem, perhaps it is time that we choose to solve the problem by teaching our children to be media-wise.

For further information about MOVIEGUIDE or THE MEDIA-WISE FAMILY, please call (770) 825-0084
or write:
MOVIEGUIDE
2510-G Las Posas Road, Suite 502,
Camarillo, CA 93010,
USA.
_________________________________________________________________________

EDITOR'S NOTE: Dr. Ted Baehr is a resident of Camarillo, California, author of THE MEDIA-WISE FAMILY, the publisher of MOVIEGUIDE (r), and the Chairman of the Christian Film & Television Commission.

Kids' Letters to the Pastor
Submitted by F. Bills

Dear Pastor, I know God loves everybody but He never met my sister. Yours sincerely, Arnold. Age 8, Nashville

Dear Pastor, Please say in your sermon that Peter Peterson has been a good boy all week. I am Peter Peterson. Sincerely, Pete. Age 9, Phoenix

Dear Pastor, My father should be a minister. Every day he gives us a sermon about something. Robert, age 11, Anderson

Dear Pastor, I'm sorry I can't leave more money in the plate, but my father didn't give me a raise in my allowance. Could you have a sermon about a raise in my allowance? Love, Patty. Age 10, New Haven

Dear Pastor, My mother is very religious. She goes to play bingo at church every week even if she has a cold. Yours truly, Annette. Age 9, Albany

Dear Pastor, I would like to go to heaven someday because I know my brother won't be there. Stephen. Age 8, Chicago

Dear Pastor, I think a lot more people would come to your church if you moved it to Disneyland. Loreen. Age 9. Tacoma

Dear Pastor, I liked your sermon where you said that good health is more important than money but I still want a raise in my allowance. Sincerely, Eleanor Age 12, Sarasota

Dear Pastor, Please pray for all the airline pilots. I am flying to California tomorrow. Laurie. Age 10, New York City

Dear Pastor, I hope to go to heaven some day but later than sooner. Love, Ellen, age 9. Athens

Dear Pastor, Please say a prayer for our Little League team. We need God's help or a new pitcher. Thank you. Alexander. Age 10, Raleigh

Dear Pastor, My father says I should learn the Ten Commandments. But I don't think I want to because we have enough rules already in my house. Joshua. Age 10, South Pasadena

Dear Pastor, Are there any devils on earth? I think there may be one in my class. Carla. Age 10, Salina

Dear Pastor, I liked your sermon on Sunday. Especially when it was finished. Ralph, Age 11, Akron

Dear Pastor, How does God know the good people from the bad people? Do you tell Him or does He read about it in the newspapers? Sincerely, Marie. Age 9, Lewiston


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