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Miss Mama
By Iona Hoeppner
I am 66 years old, and I still
miss my mother. She went home to the Lord on Mothers day, 1992.
I've celebrated Mothers day differently ever since. It's a
bitter-sweet holiday for me. Mama had forgotten who I was by the
time Alzheimer's took her life, and I knew she was ready for the
freedom and joy of Heaven... but losing her was still hard. I
was blessed with a loving mother but didn't always appreciate
her as I should. Now I know how much I admire her... and hope
she realizes it, too. As I have said before, she was the
strongest yet most fragile person I've ever known... and I sure
do miss her!
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Unusual Signs and Wonders Today? - True Story
By Renae Patterson of
Christian
Woman Daily.Com
In the year 2002, the
state of Texas, didn’t issue social security numbers, birth, or death
certificates to parents of stillborn babies. On October 25 2002, my
third daughter was stillborn In TX.
The realization I wouldn’t be given any official documents left me numb.
I reasoned the rest of the world considered my child’s life and death
were insignificant. My nine long months of pregnancy, the pain of labor,
and delivery was all in vain and the baby had no identity.
About a month after her funeral, I found an internet company that
created “unofficial certificates of life” for stillborn babies. I
immediately gave them my baby’s information- her DOB, weight, time of
birth, length, hospital name, and placed the order.
A week or so passed, and I received a package in the mail with the
company’s name imprinted on the front.
I tore into the package and pulled out a “Certificate of Life” with my
baby’s information written in beautiful calligraphy.
At last, something to acknowledge her existence. The certificate looked
almost identical to my other two daughter’s birth certificates.
At the time, I was a work- at- home mom with a lot of free time on my
hands (at least while my older girls were in school), so I decided to
use my free time learning to write in calligraphy (inspired by the
beautiful handwriting on the certificate).
Learning something new was therapeutic during this grieving period, but
the pain of her loss was still fresh. I had to rely solely on God to
help during the weak and lonely moments.
I knew I had to pray, listen to the Holy Spirit and read my bible. I
searched the scriptures night and day for answers, and the Holy Spirit
was finally able to calm my spirit. He reminded me of God’s grace, and
God’s grace was sufficient for me.
Now that I was experiencing peace, I began asking my husband what he
thought about trying to have another baby. He said he wasn’t sure. He
wanted to try again, however he thought it was too soon. (It had only
been about 4 months).
He was afraid something terrible could happen again. He also made the
comment “I’m just too old to have anymore children”.
True, he is older than I am, but I believe he only said this out of fear
of the unknown.
I disagreed about the age comment, but decided not to push the issue any
further (because I knew he was still grieving too). I continued
practicing my calligraphy, praying and reading scriptures.
On March 7, 2003, five months after the funeral, I picked up my bible
and prayed, asking the Lord to direct me to the scripture He would have
me read. Leaving my bible open, I decided to wait and see if the Holy
Spirit would give me scripture guidance.
While waiting for an answer, I noticed my calligraphy pen and paper
sitting on the table in front of me.
I picked up the pen (thinking I might take notes on my bible study), but
as I pressed the pen down on the paper, no ink came out. I shook the
pen, tried to get the ink to come out, but nothing.
Frustrated with my pen, I shook it harder and tapped it against my leg.
Finally, I saw ink starting to flow through the end. As I placed the pen
on paper, the ink flowing from the tip of the pen made a dark impression
on the page that looked like the number 2 with the letter K next to it.
“How Strange” I thought. I put the lid back on the pen and placed it
back down on the table. As I picked up the bible, I scanned through the
contents page, trying to decide which book to read.
I looked at the bible’s contents, then, glanced back at the paper with
the 2K on it. My mind made a strange connection. The connection was
between the 2K marking on the paper, and the bible book 2nd Kings.
“That was it!” I needed to read 2nd Kings. I began flipping through the
pages and finally made it to 2nd Kings Chapter 1. As I began reading, I
discovered I had never read this book.
When I made it to Chapter 4:8, I read these words:
One day Elisha went to Shunem and a well-to-do woman was there, who
urged him to stay for a meal. So whenever he came by, he stopped there
to eat. [9] She said to her husband, "I know that this man who often
comes our way is a holy man of God. [10] Let's make a small room on the
roof and put in it a bed and a table, a chair and a lamp for him. Then
he can stay there whenever he comes to us."
2KI 4:11 One day when Elisha came, he went up to his room and lay down
there. [12] He said to his servant Gehazi, "Call the Shunammite." So he
called her, and she stood before him. [13] Elisha said to him, "Tell
her, `You have gone to all this trouble for us. Now what can be done for
you? Can we speak on your behalf to the king or the commander of the
army?' " She replied, "I have a home among my own people."
2KI 4:14 "What can be done for her?" Elisha asked. Gehazi said, "Well,
she has no son and her husband is old."
2KI 4:15 Then Elisha said, "Call her." So he called her, and she stood
in the doorway. [16] "About this time next year," Elisha said, "you will
hold a son in your arms." "No, my lord," she objected. "Don't mislead
your servant, O man of God!" 2KI 4:17 But the woman became pregnant, and
the next year about that same time she gave birth to a son, just as
Elisha had told her.
After reading these words, I knew in my heart this message was for me,
and my situation. It reminded me of the writings that appeared to Daniel
(see Daniel 5:5).
Why would God bless me with a son? I had already given birth to three
girls and my husband had a girl from a previous marriage. It would seem
impossible we would ever have a son, but I claimed these scriptures for
myself and kept them in my heart.
On January 19, 2004, I gave birth to a healthy 7lb 12 oz baby boy
approximately 46 weeks after reading 2Kings (Note: An average pregnancy
from conception to due date takes approx 40 weeks).
Was this just a coincidence? I don’t think so. To my husband and I, this
incident was a gracious sign from the Lord, a gift, and miracle I didn’t
ask for or expect. (I assumed I would never have a son).
My conclusion:
Is it possible God still moves in people’s lives the way He did in the
bible? Of course he does. Jesus Christ is Alive. God still does amazing
things as signs for us. He also does many things outside of His Word,
just never contrary to His Word. John said in John 21:25- Jesus did many
other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose
that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would
be written.
Am I being arrogant because I believe He can bless me in the same way He
blessed the Shunamite woman in 2nd Kings? I don’t think so, the people
of the bible were just men/women, just like you and I.
God uses the weak to confound the strong. We shouldn’t glorify any
people in the bible (with the exception of Jesus); they were nothing but
clay in the hands of The Potter.
Millions of people around the world from all different backgrounds find
miracle healing, forgiveness and love through Jesus in our day! What the
Lord did for others, he can still do for you. He is no respecter of
persons.
Should it surprise a true believer in God that God is working miracles
and showing signs of His power today? According to the Bible, "Jesus
Christ is the same, yesterday, today and forever" (Hebrews 13:8). If
Jesus was ever a miracle worker, He is today.
Did He ever say He would stop doing miracles? To deny miracles, is to
mock prayer today, since even the slightest true answer to prayer
involves a measure of divine intervention. God can do whatever He wants
at any time. Jesus is not dead. He is a risen savior- our high priest.
While there is order in the Universe, there is also plenty of room for
the direct involvement of God's Spirit.
You can believe this story if you want. I’m going to get my son, hold
him in my arms, praise God, and give Him the glory.
*****
Renae Patterson is the
editor for an online Christian magazine for women entitled "Christian
Woman Daily.Com" but she also writes her own articles. Renae is
the mother of three girls and one son. To see additional articles by
Renae, please visit
http://www.christianwomandaily.com
Just a
Mom
A woman, renewing her driver's license
at the County Clerk's office was asked by the woman recorder to state
her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. "What I mean is,
"explained the recorder, "do you have a job or are you just a...?"
"Of course I have a job," snapped the woman. "I'm a Mom."
"We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation, 'housewife' covers it," said the
recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same
situation, this time at our own Town Hall.
The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient and possessed
of a high sounding title like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town
Registrar."
"What is your occupation?" she probed.
What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out.
"I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human
Relations.
The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as
though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly emphasizing
the most significant words.
Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black
ink on the official questionnaire.
"Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in
your field?"
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply,
"I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't) in the
laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and
out).
I'm working for my Masters, (the whole darned family) and already have
four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most
demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I often
work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it).
But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and
the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money."
There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she
completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door.
As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I
was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3.
Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby)
in the child development program, testing out a new vocal pattern.
I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on the
official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to
mankind than "just another Mom."
Motherhood! What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on
the door.
Does this make grandmothers "Senior Research associates in the field of
Child Development and Human Relations" and great grandmothers "Executive
Senior Research Associates"?
I think so!!!! I also think it makes Aunts "Associate Research
Assistants.
Please send this to another Mom, Grandmother, Aunt, and other friends
you know.
May your troubles be less, your blessings be more and nothing but
happiness come.
There is no such thing as failure.
There's only Feedback.
Why God
Made Moms
Submitted by Carol Holmes
"Why God made moms" answers given by
elementary school age children to the following questions:
Why did God make mothers?
1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.
How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
3. God made my Mom just the same like he made me. He just used bigger
parts.
What ingredients are mothers made of?
1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in
the world and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use
string, I think.
Why did God give you your mother and not some other Mom?
1. We're related.
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's moms like me.
What kind of little girl was your Mom?
1. My Mom has always been my Mom and none of that other stuff.
2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be pretty
bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.
What did Mom need to know about dad before she married him?
1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk
on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to
chores?
Why did your Mom marry your dad?
1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mom eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that Mom didn't have her thinking cap on.
Who's the boss at your house?
1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof
ball.
2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the
bed.
3. I guess Mom is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.
What's the difference between moms and dads?
1. Moms work at work & work at home, & dads just go to work at work.
2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller & stronger, but moms have all the real power 'cause
that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friend's.
4. Moms have magic, they make you feel better without medicine.
What does your Mom do in her spare time?
1. Mothers don't do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.
What would it take to make your Mom perfect?
1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of
plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know, her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.
If you could change one thing about your Mom, what would it be?
1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid
of that.
2. I'd make my Mom smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did
it and not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on her back.

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