Summer, 2001
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Just a Thought...
By Staff Writer Sharon Barrett
Romans 2:1" You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things."
 
No excuse what so ever to pass judgment on another human being. In passing judgment on another you are condemning yourself to that same judgment. Leave the judging to the LORD! For the LORD knows all things about a person. Things we can not see, things we do not know. How terrible to judge a person wrongly and then have condemned yourself.
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The "Weaker" One
By Derek Cobb
As published on KURT'S DAILY MUSE

The Apostle Peter wrote, "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers" (I Pet. 3:7).

Now, this has been misinterpreted and abused more than most scriptures. Was Peter saying that women are inferior to men? Was he making excuses for women? On the contrary. Peter was comparing "denim" to "fine silk." Is denim stronger? Of course. But with what would you prefer to decorate your home? Can fine silk tear easier. You bet! But it has all the qualities of royalty, elegance, and beauty.

Many years ago, I had the rare privilege of being a Mercedes Benz salesman (for 4 months - but please don't ask). One of the "tricks" that we were taught to prove the durability of German engineering, was to open the back door, ask the customer to step back a few feet, and then slam the door as hard as possible, spinning on our heels at the same time, stopping to face the customer (while they stood with gaping mouth), and say, "You can't do that with any other luxury car!"

On our showroom floor, was also a Rolls Royce car. It was locked at all times. There was only one RR salesman - a very dapper, uppity fellow, who didn't bend when he sat, and who never smiled until he received the customer's check. He would not allow us Mercedes salespeople to get near "his" car. He saw the way we "slammed" our doors. And he tried to explain that Rolls Royce doors are closed very gently, with a subtle "click" - that everything about this touring machine is precise, elegant, and requires the greatest amount of care. For this automobile "set the bar" on luxury.

Are you with me? If husbands would treat their wives as the "weaker" but "finer" partner, we might have more wives treating their husbands with more love and respect. May the Lord's blessings be your's today, as you men "detail" your Rolls.


What Is Love?
Submitted by Darlyn Johnson

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 and 8 year-olds: What does love mean to you? The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way. - Charlie age 5

When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.- Rebecca - age 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.- Billy - age 4

Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other. - Karl - age 5

Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs. Chrissy - age 6

Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings. - Samantha - age 6

Love is what makes you smile when you're tired. -Terri - age 4

Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK. - Danny - age 7

Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss. - Emily - age 8

Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen. - Bobby - age 5

If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate. - Nikka - age 6

Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no.. - Patty - age 8

When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more. - Matthew - age 7

There are two kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes both kinds of them. - Jenny - age 4

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.- Noelle - age 7

Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well. - Tommy - age 6

During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.- Cindy - age 8

My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night. - Clare - Age 5


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