Extra - Thoughts on Cancer and on Life Topics
"A heart at peace gives life to the body."

Isa 40:31
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Ps 91:1
He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

Dwell my Friend.. dwell... and then abide!

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Cancer!

Such a short word with so deep an impact on every life it touches. What a dreaded and horrific disease it is... straight from the fiendish heart of satan himself. Yet, just as Christ defeated that "lord of the flies, father of lies," cancer cannot prevail against the love of Christ Jesus. Sometimes victims receive the miracle of healing, at other times our God uses this disease to bring other souls to salvation—either way, love prevails.

This page is dedicated to all who suffer from, have recovered from or have died from cancer... and to all those who love these intrepid souls. The original border set was created with leading from the Holy Spirit. Here's what it means:

The shape: So like a tombstone, for the spectre of death hangs over those touched by cancer, an ever present dark cloud lurking behind each thought and deed and attempting to shroud the heart with gloom. BUT... those who are the Lord's know death has no sting for them. The tomb is empty, for Christ LIVES and brings life eternal to all who follow Him.

The fractures: The cracks or fractures in the blue background represent satan's attempt to break up the lives of cancer victims and those who love them. These cracks, however have not broken the spirit, indeed, they are now welded together. Like a mended bone, the piece is still one and even stronger because of the sealed and healed fractures.

The blue: There seems to be a storm brewing in the blue background. Life with cancer is stormy and oft the blues flood in to plague the heart with doubt and despair. It happens! Yet it cannot last, for when we pour out our hearts to the merciful Father, He sends comfort... a call from a friend, a peaceful sunset bathed in glorious colors as pure as heaven. If we but let our hearts be still, the storm will calm, the blues turn rosy and our soul will find rest.

The sunflower: Or shall we say SONflower. Created and remaining in beauty, we belong in the bouquet of the Lord. The petals are faded by the ravages of cancer, yet the flower stands straight and tall in faith; the leaves are boldly green and soak up SON light to nourish the entire plant; the "eye" at the flower's center is wide open to the truth and focused on the Saviour. The flower remains in the foreground, neither daunted nor eclipsed by the storm behind it.

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What Cancer Can't Do
Submitted by Viola Gilbert

Cancer is so limited........
It cannot cripple love,
It cannot shatter hope,
It cannot corrode faith,
It cannot eat away peace,
It cannot destroy confidence,
It cannot kill friendship,
It cannot shut out memories,
It cannot silence courage,
It cannot invade the soul,
It cannot reduce eternal life,
It cannot quench the Spirit,
It cannot lessen the power.


YOU CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS
Submitted by Edie Smith

Your life at any time can become difficult.
Your life at any time can become easy.
It all depends upon how you adjust to life.
It's never the situation, it's your reaction to the situation.

The way you react to circumstances determines your feelings.
Your quality of life is determined not by what life brings to you,
but by the attitude you have towards life.

What happens to you is less significant than what happens within you.
You cannot always control your circumstances,
but you can control your own thoughts.

It's not your position but your disposition that matters.


Dare to Dream
By Manuel Diotte

Life! What a precious gift from God. What a blessing to be alive in a wonderful, vibrant world of unlimited possibilities. Then, adversity strikes, and this "gift" feels more like a curse. "Why? Why me?" we ask. Yet we never get an answer, or do we? After contracting Hodgkin's disease at age seven and being given six months to live, I triumphed over the odds. Call it luck, hope, faith or courage, there are thousands of survivors! Winners like us know the answer - "Why not us? We can handle it!" I'm not dying of cancer. I'm living with cancer. God doesn't make junk, regardless of what comes our way, and I don't have to be afraid anymore.

In my sophomore year of high school, the class was scheduled to run the mile. I will always remember that day because due to the swelling and scars from surgery on my leg, for two solid years I had not worn shorts. I was afraid of the teasing. So, for two years I lived in fear. Yet that day, it didn't matter. I was ready - shorts, heart and mind. I no sooner got to the starting line before I heard the loud whispers. "Gross!" "How fat!" "How ugly!" I blocked it out.

Then the coach yelled, "Ready. Set. Go!" I jetted out of there like an airplane, faster than anyone for the first 20 feet. I didn't know much about pacing then, but it was okay because I was determined to finish first. As we came around the first of four laps, there were students all over the track. By the end of the second lap, many of the students had already quit. They had given up and were on the ground gasping for air. As I started the third lap, only a few of my classmates were left on the track, and I began limping. By the time I hit the fourth lap, I was alone. Then it hit me. I realized that nobody had given up. Instead, everyone had already finished. As I ran that last lap, I cried. I realized that every boy and girl in my class had beat me, and 12 minutes, 42 seconds after starting, I crossed the finish line. I fell to the ground and shed oceans. I was so embarrassed.

Suddenly my coach ran up to me and picked me up, yelling, "You did it. Manuel! Manuel, you finished, son. You finished!" He looked me straight in the eye waving a piece of paper in his hand. It was my goal for the day, which I had forgotten. I had given it to him before class. He read it aloud to everyone. It simply said, "I, Manuel Diotte, will finish the mile run tomorrow, come what may. No pain or frustration will stop me. For I am more than capable of finishing, and with God as my strength, I will finish." Signed, Manuel Diotte - with a little smiling face inside the D, as I always sign my name. My heart lifted. My tears went away, and I had a smile on my face as if I had eaten a banana sideways. My classmates applauded and gave me my first standing ovation. It was then I realized winning isn't always finishing first. Sometimes winning is just finishing.


The Vision of Hope

Below is a poem of prose recently written by my mother, who, though she is not yet 50, was recently diagnosed with a brain tumor located on the pituitary gland. As you can imagine, this has produced some turmoil for her. I've always known her to be a strong Christian woman, and as with everything else, she seems to be taking all of this rather well. We do not yet know how bad her condition is, but no matter what the outlook, she is full of peace. She is not afraid of dying; though I think the thought that she may become disabled bothers her because she has never wanted to be a burden to anyone. But whatever happens, she knows the Lord will go through it with her. You see, being a Christian isn't a "religion" to her; it is a very real and close relationship with the person, Jesus Christ. He is her Friend. I hope this poem will touch you as it has touched me. As you read it, put yourself in her shoes. Feel her struggle, then feel her faith. You may just find it is what you have been looking for yourself.

With Love,
Linda's daughter, (Shelly Donahue)
e-mailed comments are welcome at:
jpd3rd@juno.com
***(Feel free to e-mail this to anyone you care about.)***

THE VISION OF HOPE
Written By: Linda L. Rucker
©1-19-99

satan is a blackness
That creeps into my room;
Late at night,
When I feel all alone.
The darkness so deep
I can not breathe.
he whispers ugly words;
Words I dare not say;
About sickness, disability and death.

But:

God is a soft, warm blanket
That covers me with grace.
He says, "Hush child.
I will rock you to sleep.
Haven't I always been with you?
Have I ever let you down?
Didn't I send you my Son?
Hasn't He always been your Friend?"

Oh yes; my Friend!

Jesus is a Friend.
He has always been my best Friend.
When I was a child
I talked to Him outloud.
People would smile and think, 'How cute,
She has an imaginary friend.'
But I knew He was real.
We would walk in the woods
And pick blackberries and wild plums.
When I heard a scary noise
He would say, "It's okay.
Our Father will take care of us."

And:

When I was old enough to understand
What He had done for me,
I was broken hearted.
How could that happen to my Friend?
Who was so good and kind;
So perfect?
Then He whispered in my ear,
"I was willing
Because I loved you."
And so I vowed
To never let Him go.
He said, "I will send my Spirit
To guide you on your way."

And now:

The Holy Spirit is my Guide.
He speaks to me and says,
"You're too close to the edge.
Move over, closer to the mountain.
Hug the mountain and it will grow.
The mountain is your faith."

I hear Him coming in the blackness;
Sounds of cooing doves.
Speaking words of love.
Speaking words of comfort.
They bring the Light.
They pour It down upon my head
Until It covers me
And soaks into my soul.
And there is perfect peace.

I smell the fragrance of the prayers
That are said for me.
They gently fall like flower petals,
Covering the Light;
Sealing It in so not one dot of darkness shows.
And now I understand,
The beauty of a prayer.

***Note from the author*** This writing may be copied anytime and anywhere, (though it must not be sold for any purpose unless pre-approved by me in writing). My only request is that you never capitalize the word "satan" in the first verse, (because the devil doesn't deserve such an honor), and that you keep the 8th chapter of Romans in your heart.


Encouragement From My Friends
Submitted by Carol Skipper of Apron Strings

My precious friends Carol and Julia sent me these when I was in California with my niece Donna who was battling leukemia. I pray they encourage you as much as they did me.

I Refuse To Be Discouraged!

I refuse to be discouraged,
To be sad, or to cry;
I refuse to be downhearted,
and here's the reason why:

I have a God who's mighty,
Who's sovereign and supreme;
I have a God who loves me,
and I am on His team.

He is all-wise and powerful,
Jesus is His name;
Though everything is changeable,
My God remains the same.

My God knows all that's happening;
Beginning to the end;
His presence is my comfort;
He is my dearest Friend.

When sickness comes to weaken me,
To bring my head down low,
I call upon my mighty God;
Into His arms I go.

When circumstances threaten
to rob me of my peace;
He draws me close unto His breast,
Where all my strivings cease.

And when my heart
melts within me,
and weakness takes control;
He gathers me into His arms,
He soothes my heart and soul.

The great "I AM" is with me,
My life is in His hand,
The "Son of the Lord" is my hope.
It's in His strength I stand.

I refuse to be defeated.
My eyes are on my God;
He has promised to be with me,
as through this life I trod.

I'm looking past all my circumstances,
To Heaven's throne above;
My prayers have reached the heart of God
I'm resting in His love.

I give God thanks in everything.
My eyes are on His face;
The battle's His, the victory is mine;
He'll help me win the race.

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

A Healing Stillness
By: Guy Garrett

A Healing Stillness
Psalms 46:10 Be Still And Know That I Am God

Be still my child...
and in that stillness
you will come to know
that I AM GOD.

Stop the rush of thoughts, ideas, tasks to be performed...
Lay all aside and be still before Me.
I will not compete with your thoughts.
You must choose Me;
for then and only then, will you know, and I know,
that I AM your GOD.

In My stillness there is peace.
In quietness I dwell.
In my presence is the fullness of your joy.
My presence will restore you.
It will renew and strengthen you.
Rest from the battle and I will make you strong for the next conflict.

When you know...
when all doubts, fears, and anxieties
bow their knee to My name
and are dissipated by My presence,
when you truly know who I AM, and what I AM,
you will never fear again.

All the resources of heaven stand ready to move
on behalf of those who trust Me,
who believe that what I have said in My Word is true.
Know this well.
There is no greater power on earth than I.
I AM GOD!

I love you deeply.
I care for your life.
I sent my most Precious Possession to earth
to live a life before you that would strengthen and encourage you.
He came that you might have My life force within you.
Then He bowed His life unto Me in humble submission
and allowed His Precious Blood to be extracted from Him
as settlement for all that you would ever do wrong.

I have done all for you that needs to be done
in order for you to live your life in the power of My Spirit.
I have forgiven you;
I indwell you; and all I need from you is agreement and consent.
Then My Power will flow from you
as it did from My First Born.
You will order the affairs of your adversary.
He has no dominion over you anymore.
My Glory will be manifest in your life
Be still and know that I am God.


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